So in lieu of a regular blog post I’ll do some fat raging here.
I am a little fat lady.
I’m barely 5’3” in my shoes I’m a bit taller because YAY thick soles.
I’m wearing a wrap shirt/full skirt outfit and no cardigan today.
No less than SEVEN mother fucking people have commented on my apparent weight loss.
I will say that for at least the last five years my weight and size has been the same.
My body shape is the same.
My natural waist is very high up right under my boobs so most clothes kinda skim over that. That is fine with me clearly.
Just because you can SEE my shape more closely doesn’t mean I’m not fat or on a diet or whatever bullshit.
Any one of those people could have said, oh you look super cute today which a few people did.
Could have said DAYUM yo titties look good.
I would accept that.
I don’t accept the idea that I MUST be changing my body and only in that case is it okay to say I look good or different.
I don’t like it.
I don’t like the dieters gaze on my fat ass it makes me feel gross.
I’d frankly rather be leered at on the bus by some dirty old pervert who is mesmerized by the jiggle my boobs commence doing when I’m on the bus. I can deal with that because I get it.
I don’t get the need to project magical weightloss or dieting onto my perfectly fine ass.
Here’s the rules people. If you have to comment just say, oh hey you look really cute today. Leave the weightloss caveats out of it. And don’t be a fucking bitch if I say pointedly that no I am not dieting or losing weight.