I Like Pretty Clothes

And they like me too, I'm sure of it

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heyfatchick:

For context on this post, see this page: http://fancybidet.tumblr.com/post/28879659663/journalist-seeks-size-12-16-people-who-are-confident-in

spectralradiance:

I may be a size 14 instead of a 24 but hey guess what! By society’s standards I am still fat, I have still been called fat since I was a little girl, and I still can’t guarantee when I go into a store that they will have my size

lots of body privilege there let me tell y’all

You’re giving us smaller fats a bad name, man……..

Society’s extremely limited view on what constitutes ‘beauty’ and ‘health’ affects us all. I mean, obviously. We have a culture that makes us feel shitty about our bodies in many different ways. All of us, in all of our shapes and sizes, have been made to feel unworthy because of our appearance.

However, recognising that people fatter than us experience stigma in a way we don’t does not negate our experiences

  • We can fit into most chairs with arms.
  • We can fit into most booths.
  • While we “still can’t guarantee when I go into a store that they will have my size”, we can go into some stores. And we’re not sized out of plus size ranges.
  • When a magazine does a story on body confidence, they will use our size. Because we’re not too fat. Because our level of fatness makes us ‘real’.

And I’m sure there are a whole lot of other things that I’ve never even considered because I have the privilege of not having to deal with those issues.

Thin privilege (like all other privileges) does not exist in a binary; we can have it and not have it all at once.

(Source: them-witches)

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    for awesome inbetweenie commentary.
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    oh god yeah I realized that’s what it sounded like I was saying and that’s not okay. Thank you for being patient with...
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    i understand. thank you. it just seemed to go to another level when now a big fat-positivity blog was like “hey people...
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    - You don’t have to ask for a seat belt extender on an airplane. - Sometimes you forgo wearing a seat belt in a car...
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    smaller fat here to say yuuuup, we definitely have privilege compared to larger fats.
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  16. graysongraves said: preach I’m a size 8 and I still get called fat.
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